Men equal Drama!!
Topic of conversation? Why are hetrosexual couples more dramatic than gay couples?
I asked, "Gay couples as in two men? because i dont really see too many overly dramatic lesbein couples.. well unless one of the lesbeins is a stripper."
He says, "well yea... cause i see more drama in hetrosexual couples than in all my gay relationships".
I say, "and what is the common denominator?? MEN" there for MEN equal drama.
Okay i know there are always women out there who cause drama but the catalyst is always a man.... i love my theories. heehee
so as we debate this theory while sitting in the middle of IHOP i notice that two tables full of young adults have now stolen our topic of conversation and made it their own. So i in turn i start to talk just a little bit louder in hopes that i can get more tables involved in this subject. I succeeded within 20 minutes i had the servers and two more tables discussing it. And then i change the subject. Completely and without warning. My friends all stared at me. "were we done with the topic?"
I say, "just go with me and talk about this now .. "
it was religion and the catholic stand against gays. We talked .. we debated. we elevated our voices. It was fun. Two tables down, a young couple started an arguement over gays in the catholic church. I laughed. my friends stared at me like i was crazy. I finally whispered to them to just listen to the people around us. We are controlled their conversation and i think thats funny. We laugh.
Then AJ (my best friend) got on my nerves. he cracks a joke about the game of prayer during catholic service. Catholic service??? "ummm AJ, please dont pretend as if you didnt attend church until you were 21. you know exactly what happens during MASS. its not scattagories. Not twister. Its mass."
Why it gets on my nerves. He's 29 and gay. he came out of the closet when he was 22. Lost his virginity and is now a raging whore. But because he is gay is has lost all respect for the catholic church. I get it. Church turns its back on you ... you turn your back on the church. The catch? God still exist and you will stand before him to be judged. he was rasied catholic and even went to private school... how does he lose all respect for the religion he was raised on and the religion of his family? All respect. There is nothing left. I am not judging him, I have my faults and my addictions, I too could be called a raging whore. but i know my faults and i know my sins. I know i will be judged. he has seems to have forgotten that. It gets on my nerves to know that he is worst off than i was on my worst day. He actually schedules his hook ups before getting into town. Needing that sexual high. Whats worst? he uses his sexuality as an excuse to continue that life.
then i remember, Hitting rocks never felt good. I stand and watch him as he falls. he actaully cancelled lunch with me to get in one last hook up before he left back home were his bfriend waits for him.. i hadnt seen him in almost 8 months .. wont see him again for another year. But he needed his fix. So down he falls. the rocks are gonna hurt.
I wonder if he'll notice them when he hits the bottom.
I asked, "Gay couples as in two men? because i dont really see too many overly dramatic lesbein couples.. well unless one of the lesbeins is a stripper."
He says, "well yea... cause i see more drama in hetrosexual couples than in all my gay relationships".
I say, "and what is the common denominator?? MEN" there for MEN equal drama.
Okay i know there are always women out there who cause drama but the catalyst is always a man.... i love my theories. heehee
so as we debate this theory while sitting in the middle of IHOP i notice that two tables full of young adults have now stolen our topic of conversation and made it their own. So i in turn i start to talk just a little bit louder in hopes that i can get more tables involved in this subject. I succeeded within 20 minutes i had the servers and two more tables discussing it. And then i change the subject. Completely and without warning. My friends all stared at me. "were we done with the topic?"
I say, "just go with me and talk about this now .. "
it was religion and the catholic stand against gays. We talked .. we debated. we elevated our voices. It was fun. Two tables down, a young couple started an arguement over gays in the catholic church. I laughed. my friends stared at me like i was crazy. I finally whispered to them to just listen to the people around us. We are controlled their conversation and i think thats funny. We laugh.
Then AJ (my best friend) got on my nerves. he cracks a joke about the game of prayer during catholic service. Catholic service??? "ummm AJ, please dont pretend as if you didnt attend church until you were 21. you know exactly what happens during MASS. its not scattagories. Not twister. Its mass."
Why it gets on my nerves. He's 29 and gay. he came out of the closet when he was 22. Lost his virginity and is now a raging whore. But because he is gay is has lost all respect for the catholic church. I get it. Church turns its back on you ... you turn your back on the church. The catch? God still exist and you will stand before him to be judged. he was rasied catholic and even went to private school... how does he lose all respect for the religion he was raised on and the religion of his family? All respect. There is nothing left. I am not judging him, I have my faults and my addictions, I too could be called a raging whore. but i know my faults and i know my sins. I know i will be judged. he has seems to have forgotten that. It gets on my nerves to know that he is worst off than i was on my worst day. He actually schedules his hook ups before getting into town. Needing that sexual high. Whats worst? he uses his sexuality as an excuse to continue that life.
then i remember, Hitting rocks never felt good. I stand and watch him as he falls. he actaully cancelled lunch with me to get in one last hook up before he left back home were his bfriend waits for him.. i hadnt seen him in almost 8 months .. wont see him again for another year. But he needed his fix. So down he falls. the rocks are gonna hurt.
I wonder if he'll notice them when he hits the bottom.
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